And I live in a small town
Prob'ly die in a small town
Oh, those small communities
All my friends are so small town
My parents live in the same small town
My job is so small town
Provides little opportunity
Educated in a small town
Taught to fear Jesus in a small town
Used to daydream in that small town
Another born romantic that's me
But I've seen it all in a small town
Had myself a ball in a small town
Married an L.A. doll and brought her to this small town
Now she's small town just like me
[ From: http://www.elyrics.net/read/j/john-mellencamp-lyrics/small-town-lyrics.html ]
No I cannot forget where it is that I come from
I cannot forget the people who love me
Yeah, I can be myself here in this small town
And people let me be just what I want to be
Got nothing against a big town
Still hayseed enough to say
Look who's in the big town
But my bed is in a small town
Oh, and that's good enough for me
Well I was born in a small town
And I can breathe in a small town
Gonna die in this small town
And that's prob'ly where they'll bury me
----------John Mellencamp
Today I realized that there are some things that I gained from my small town upbringing that will just never go away:
1. Casseroles can heal.
Births, deaths, or natural disasters, I've learned that no matter what, you must take a casserole. It will make things better. Always.
2. It's a lot of trouble to go to "town".
Almost every day before I come home from work I ask my husband if he needs anything "from town". Mind you, our house is 3 minutes from a gas station, a Chinese restaurant, a Krispy Kreme, a CVS, a Family Dollar Store, and a K-Mart. The grocery store and bank is about 5 minutes away and the mall is a mere 10 minutes away.
3. It's ok to call an adult by their first name, as long as you put "Mr" or "Miss" in front of it.
My in-laws are "Miss" Nancy and "Mr" Boochie.... I cringe if I mess up and call them by their first names only. It will always be "Miss Sharon" and "Miss" Polly or "Mr" Gary and "Mr" Fred. However, I cannot do this with former teachers. Even though Mrs. Slayton's son was one of my good friends growing up, she will always be Mrs. Slayton. and Mrs. Gordon and Mrs. Baugh will never be Miss Annell and Miss Ann - just wont.
4. Wave - you don't want people to talk about how unfriendly you are.
When you pass someone on the road or walking in a neighborhood... you must lift four fingers ever so slightly off of the steering wheel in a polite gesture of "hi". Sometimes, if you know the person in real life, you can even give a little nod. Failure to do so may lead you to be talked about among the social circles -----
5. Be involved - get out and do!
Shop locally. Support local charities. Attend functions such as plays and concerts. Go to the library. Support the local school's sports teams. Take what you have and make the most of it.





















